- We must have lunch some time when you don't really mean it seems harmless. But it can lead you into deeper deception if the other person proposes a more concrete plan. Only make a gesture of friendship if you're willing to follow it through - relationships are too precious to be toyed with.
- Recognize that the main cause of your suffering is the seed of anger in you and that the other person is only a secondary cause.
- Welcome mishaps because they wake you up.